In the first four books of A Dance to the Music of Time, certain parts of Nick’s life are absent. Most notably we do not meet members of Nick’s family. Yet, throughout the books, we meet a whole host of father figures, men that are older than Nick, whom he befriends, and perhaps even looks up to. In The Acceptance World, for example, we met Ted Jeavons and General Conyers, but in previous books, we have also met similar characters, most notably Uncle Giles and Edgar Deacon. If we focus on these three examples, Nick seems to grow much closer to these father figures than with his contemporaries, and they impart to Nick, and us, lessons, and views of Nick himself.
Ted Jeavons is the newest of these old men that Nick has met. Most people, upon meeting him for the first time are given a strange impression of him. Mark Members, for example, is described as watching him “with absolute horror.” (LM, 224) Compared to Lady Molly’s last husband, he is a relative nobody. He engages in habits such as his occasional pub crawl, or activities such as bringing a tart home, which are looked down upon by others. But Nick finds Jeavons strangely intriguing, and he is interested in exploring the “mysterious avenues” of his life. (LM, 157) His life does show some interesting similarities to Nick’s. For example, he is a common man, with an acceptable, but by no means grand, living, who has married into a noble family. Just as Nick seems to find himself bumping into people from his past, so too does Jeavons bump into past acquaintances like Mildred Haycock. Also, while Jeavons does attend Lady Molly’s parties, he seems to stay in the background of them, in a manner similar to Nick’s in A Buyer’s Market. We might perhaps consider Jeavons a glimpse into Nick’s future, and a lesson to Nick about how he might live his life later on.
General Conyers is the other father figure introduced to us in At Lady Molly’s, and he is quite different from Jeavons. He has lived a successful life, and is, perhaps in a word, cool. He is well up to date in material like psychoanalysis and Virginia Woolf’s Orlando, to the point at which he can keep a conversation with Nick. In fact, after his discussion about the breakup of Widmerpool’s engagement, we see a bit of Nick in Conyers’ psychoanalysis. “You are an introvert of course…Introverted intuitive type, do you think?” (LM, 235-236) General Conyers also, like Jeavons, gives us a look into Nick’s future. Up to this point, Powell has given us examples of many marriages that have failed. Stringham, Templer, Quiggin, and Widmerpool, are all left in the wakes of failed marriages, and it seems that, as Nick moves into married life, he has no positive example to draw on (as we have not heard about his own parents’ marriage). In Conyers, however, Nick has a positive example of strong, lasting marriages. The Conyers family is living quite happily, despite the great difference in their ages.
We met Edgar Deacon earlier in the series, in A Buyer’s Market. He, like General Conyers, is a figure from Nick’s past. The two are even introduced in similar fashion: their introductions make up the few flashbacks that we see in Powell’s novel. While Conyers is married though, Deacon is acknowledged as being queer (in both senses of the word), and seems to get himself into trouble, such as the scene he causes at Milly Andriadis’ party. Nick, however, holds the man quite dear in his heart, attending both his birthday party and his funeral.
The most ubiquitous of Nick’s father figures by far is Uncle Giles, who we have seen in every book so far. Uncle Giles is perhaps less of a positive example than Nick’s other father figures. He is looked down upon by the other members of the family, and is seen perhaps as somewhat of a nuisance for his constant attempts at “squeezing out a few pounds more than his agreed portion” from the family trust. (QU, 22) He is, however, the only true member of Nick’s family that we have seen with any frequency in the books, and Nick is quite close to him. Even though they usually only talk about the trust, Nick is “glad to have remembered Uncle Giles” during rough times, such as when Stringham cuts the dinner with him for other commitments. (QU, 229)
While less noticeable than Mr. Deacon, Uncle Giles, and General Conyers and Ted Jeavons, Nick has met several other older men that have made an impression on him, such as Sunny Farebrother, Le Bas, and Alfred Tolland. Many of these men share uncanny resemblances, which indicate their shared role in Nick’s life. The scene in which Jeavons tries to convince Nick to buy an “atomiser,” for example, mirrors the scene in which Sunny Farebrother tries to convince Jimmy Stripling to buy a collar turner. Furthermore, these men, along with the previous four, have shared one quality: while seen much differently by other people, Nick has his own impressions of them, and those impressions are generally positive. He cannot understand, for example, why the Templers treat such an agreeable person as Sunny Farebrother with “so little consideration.” (QU, 79)
Four books have shown us a lot about Nick’s life, and we have seen many forces that have changed him. We have not been introduced to Nick’s father, but indeed, we have met many of his father figures. These father figures each define a part of Nick in their own way. In many ways, he is closer to these men than to his other friends, like Stringham, Templer, and Widmerpool. We will undoubtedly meet more of them as Nick’s life continues.